I have an 87 year old friend that is learning how to use his new cell phone.
This morning he took a photo and sent it to me in the hope that it worked.
What a lovely surprise to receive these beautiful roses.
There is a history behind these roses.
Several years ago my friend decided to build a dam in a plot of land quite close to his house. Unfortunately the idea was a disaster, wouldn’t contain the water and left a soggy boggy mess which attracted mosquitoes big time.
He decided to refill the area without the expense of paying someone. He advertised for truck loads of waste land fill from building sites to be delivered free. After months of waiting he finally got the land fill rocks soil etc that he needed. Unfortunately the trucks couldn’t get access to the dam so he had to cart wheel barrow loads from where it was dumped.
At this stage of the saga I should tell you that this dear soul had been cleared of bladder cancer for two years. A few months ago he started peeing blood and getting clots. Finally went back for scans which showed the cancer had returned, still within the bladder. The medical team decided no chemo, no treatment only palliative care, in other words now not treatable ๐ข.
Back to filling the dam story. After many weeks of tedious back breaking hard work on his own the hole from the dam was finally filled.
My friend then decided to turn this vacant plot into a rose garden. In preparation he located a poultry farm nearby and managed to get trailer loads of manure.
The roses were finally planted and growing well. I haven’t been able to visit the rose garden and my friend because of the pandemic and also because he lives in Victoria and I live in Queensland .
This dear man lives alone and usually declines home help. A few months ago when the Covid-19 hit Australia he was offered Meals On Wheels for several weeks free, fortunately that has been extended.
The bladder cancer is not going away, the peeing of blood and clots continue. The palliative care nurse makes an occasional visit. He feels weak and exhausted, claims not to have any pain. Has been advised to visit the hospital if the blood clots block the urinary track system.
My friend is not giving up. He plays cards with friends a twice a week and also croquet. He loves telling stories like I do and is currently rewriting stories and putting them onto USB sticks to leave for his family.
Don’t give up.
Take time to smell the roses ๐น๐๐
That is a great story of strength and the strong will to live. Thank you. โค๏ธ๐Joni
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Thank you Joni for reading the story, I had a heartfelt need to share it. Have a great day ๐๐น๐Ally.
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I am so glad it was very encouraging. ๐โค๏ธJoni
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You’re very welcome ๐
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What an inspiration your friend is! And the message ‘Don’t Give Up’ is so important. I love the way you tell your stories too.
Thank you.
Joanna
PS If you can,look up my post just published – at the end there is my garden and masses of roses.
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Thank you Joanna for commenting on my post, much appreciated.
I have been browsing and saw your beautiful Englush Garden, thankyou for sharing.
Have a wonderful day
Ally ๐น๐
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Wow, what an inspiring story this is. He looks like a hero to my eyes, finding ways to be happy in this old age amidst his health issues. Pass on my love to him. ๐๐๐ And the photo is beautiful โฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธโฃ๏ธ
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Thank you for your kind comments. I definitely will pass on your love to him ๐๐๐ thanks.
He is a hero. He is a kind, caring, generous man. Does numerous kind deeds for others in the community but yet is reluctant to accept help for himself. I have known him for more 30 years and he has never changed. I am sorry that I cannot be there in person to help him, he knows I am there in spirit โค๐
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What a wonderful friendship you both share! ๐๐Thanks for sharing this with us Ally.
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Thank you .
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Wonderful story. I am a cancer survivor myself for 21 years now. I hope he can pull through and smell those lovely roses!
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Anne I am so happy to learn that you survived the cancer ๐. Life is precious ๐. Unfortunately the cancer returned with avengance, they said his days are numbered ๐ข. He plans to live life as fully as possible.
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Well please let him know that I applaud his attitude and just take it one day at a time.๐น
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Will do, thank you Anne ๐น
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No-one gets outta here alive, so it’s up to each and every one of us to make our Journey through it the very best we can. ๐
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I wholeheartedly agree with you ๐๐
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What a stoic man and such beautiful roses I am sure with all that sweat and toil his rose beds must look amazing ๐ x
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I agree with you Carol he is s stoic man. I have asked him for a photo of the rose garden. He apparently dug 9 round holes and planted 5 rose bushes in each one, a total of 45 bushes. X
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Awww how lovely my father loved roses our front garden as a child was a big rose bed so beautiful my favourite though was the tumbling pink rambling rose I really love those x
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I fondly remember my father growing Lily of the Valley, Hydrangeas, and Peony Rose, they were my favourites x
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Ahhh the Peony another beautiful flower and the little Lily of the valley it sounds like our fathers had the same taste in flowers xx
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Yes how wonderful to enjoy the smell
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There should always be time to smell the roses!
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Your friend sounds like someone who makes the best of life, Ally, and that is lovely.
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Robbie my friend has never been one to sit and do nothing. He has always be active, and always looking for new things to learn or do. He is a respected member of the small community where he lives.๐
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What a fitting image the flowers are for your friend, to overcome illness and grow again, and still learning new skills.
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Thankyou ๐
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May God bless and heal your friend Ally. Seems as though he is stronger than a rock. The flowers are beautiful! Here are more flowers for you sweet lady.๐๐บ๐๐ธ๐๐ผ๐
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Thank you AOC. Unfortunately the bladder cancer is terminal. Geoff was in remission for two years , it then returned with avengance and now untreatable. Mentally Geoff is very strong , physically is becoming weaker and feeling tired every day. Geoff is doing his best now 88 to keep active.
Thank you for the beautiful flowers. Sending kindness to you ๐ฆ๐โ๐ป๐ผ๐ป๐ผ๐บ๐ฅ๐น๐
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Our prayers are strong in numbers and may we send them up united! I have never witnessed so many illnesses and cries for prayer than in 2021. I believe that a lot of miraculous healings will occur soon, and all for the Glory of God. Have a blessed day!๐๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐
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